Christians live by the Word of God, which provides guiding principles and wisdom for living in accordance with his will. Here is the secret to a successful life that pleases God and gives you direction, purpose, fulfillment, and peace. Follow these principles, and you will live your best life. (The following has been gathered from other sections of this work.)
Fear God
Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man. Ecclesiastes 12:13
To fear God is to acknowledge who and what he is: the only living God, the creator of all things, the judge of our souls, whose wrath can destroy us, and who can save us by his loving mercy and grace. Because of this, we live in awe (fear, even paralysis, with overwhelming possibility), respect, reverence, and obedience to our Father, who has total authority and power over everything. That is what it means to fear the Lord.
If we fear and love him for his mercy and grace, we are driven to obey his word, strive to live by his will, and conduct ourselves in a way that pleases him. God gives us the strength to do these things and provides us with the wisdom to live according to his plan.
The fear of the lord is the beginning of wisdom; and the knowledge of the holy is understanding. Proverbs 9:10
Trust in God
Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. Proverbs 3:5-6
Place your unwavering faith in God. Accept that his ways are beyond your understanding, and trust him with all aspects of your life.
Love God
And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment. Mark 12:30
The first and foremost commandment clearly instructs us to love God above all else. We are called to love him completely, with our entire being, putting him before everything else.
The word “love” can mean many things. In this context, it refers to love shown through will, action, dedication, commitment, and purpose. It comes from our gratitude for his mercy (the forgiveness of sins) and his saving grace, which make us heirs to his kingdom (our justification), as well as our humble respect (the fear of God) for who he is. Loving God in this way leads to obedience to his will; if you love God, you will keep his commandments. This love is not based on emotions, friendship, or religious rituals.
It is important to understand that God takes this commandment seriously. It is a directive, not a suggestion. In the verse below, Moses tells the Jews that God does not tolerate those who reject his commands and love other gods (idols) of the world.
Ye shall not go after other gods, of the gods of the people which are round about you; (For the Lord thy God is a jealous God among you) lest the anger of the Lord thy God be kindled against thee, and destroy thee from off the face of the earth. Deuteronomy 6:14-15
Solomon tells us in Proverbs, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.” While fear is the beginning, it is through love that wisdom is fully realized. Those who love God will immerse themselves in his word, obey his commands, and discover his wisdom.
Live in the Word of God
All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: 2nd Timothy 3:16
It is the Word of God that gives us doctrine, instruction, and correction. When we immerse ourselves in the Word every day, we are empowered to live confidently in faith.
Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom; teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord. Colossians 3:16
Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path. Psalm 119:105
Strive to be the Unashamed Workman
Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth. 2nd Timothy 2:15
Work diligently to present yourself as approved by God. Know and understand the truth in the scriptures. Handle them properly with confidence, good conscience, and deliver them in humble simplicity and sincerity.
Be Humble
But he that is greatest among you shall be your servant. And whosoever shall exalt himself shall be abased; and he that shall humble himself shall be exalted. Matthew 23:11-12
The world often suggests that greatness comes from pride, power, and dominance. However, Jesus teaches that true greatness lies in humility and serving others. He, the highest authority, exemplified this humility by humbling himself to death on a cross, offering salvation from sin to the world through his sacrifice. Achievements gained through ungrateful arrogance are repulsive, while accomplishments rooted in humble service reflect the nature of Christ.
Love Your Neighbor
And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. Matthew 22:39
The second greatest commandment is to love others as we love ourselves. Unlike our love of obedience to our Heavenly Father, this commandment emphasizes love as an act of service. We are called to love others as Jesus loved us. This involves qualities like patience, tolerance, humility, service, support, encouragement, and edification. It is free from envy, coveting, arrogance, and self-serving attitudes.
This love is not just an emotion; our attitude, actions, and deeds define it. We are not asked to like others but to love them! When we interact with others, including those we might see as enemies, we should aim to treat them as Jesus would. Always remember to ask yourself, “What would Jesus do?”
This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you. John 15:12
Forgive and Love Your Enemy
For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses. Matthew 6:14-15
Forgiving those who have wronged us, whether friends or enemies, is a command. To forgive is a divine act, demonstrated by God’s mercy toward us. We pray that the Holy Spirit grants us this ability.
Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy. But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; Matthew 5:43-44
Hating your enemy is a natural, instinctive reaction. However, loving your enemy is one of the great distinguishing characteristics of Christianity. This goes against what the world would do; it is only possible in a life transformed by the Holy Spirit.
Pray About Everything
Be careful (anxious) for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. Philippians 4:6
Gratefully ask God for what you need. Take everything to the Lord. Pray about everything, worry about nothing. When you suffer, pray for God to lift you, comfort you, establish, and heal you. When others are in pain, trouble, or headed in the wrong direction, pray for God to intervene. Seek those rooted in faith to pray with and for you. The power of fervent prayer is effective, sometimes amazingly so, when it aligns with God’s will. God hears and answers prayer all the time; it confirms that our faith is not in vain.
Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much. James 5:16
Be Grateful to God
Be grateful for the ridiculous shower of unmerited blessings we enjoy. The forgiveness of our sins and reconciliation with God through the blood of Jesus Christ sit at the top of that list.
Giving thanks always for all things unto God and the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ; Ephesians 5:20
In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you. 1st Thessalonians 5:18
Know That What You Say Matters
Look at the ships also, though they are so great and are driven by strong winds, are still directed by a very small rudder wherever the inclination of the pilot desires. So also the tongue is a small part of the body, and yet it boasts of great things. See how great a forest is set aflame by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, the very world of iniquity; the tongue is set among our members as that which defiles the entire body, and sets on fire the course of our life, and is set on fire by hell. For every species of beasts and birds, of reptiles and creatures of the sea, is tamed and has been tamed by the human race. But no one can tame the tongue; it is a restless evil and full of deadly poison. James 3:4-8
Your words can destroy your life. In a moment of foolishness, you might hurt others, damage your reputation, and dishonor God. An undisciplined tongue is the hallmark of a fool. Discipline in what you say, along with listening and calm control, are marks of a mature Christian.
But everyone must be quick to hear, slow to speak and slow to anger; for the anger of man does not achieve the righteousness of God. James 1:19
Those who live in Christ, seeking God’s approval, speak differently from those who are lost in the world. God despises those who spew boastful arrogance, slander (tearing others down), obscenities, and offensive, malicious, and derogatory language. This includes those who dishonor and disparage God by using his name as profanity. This is all filth from the world and should not be present in those who live in Christ. What you say matters, and you will be held accountable for everything that comes out of your mouth.
Often, the best approach is to remain silent. Unless you’re confident that what you’re about to say is true, adds value, isn’t self-serving, and pleases God, it’s better to keep it to yourself.
Even a fool, when he keeps silent, is considered wise; when he closes his lips, he is considered prudent. Proverbs 17:28
For he that will love life, and see good days, let him refrain his tongue from evil, and his lips that they speak no guile: 1st Peter 3:10
